Often women would like to try cunnilingus positions, but in men’s minds this kind of sex undeservedly takes last place. Many couples do not practice oral contact when the girl takes a passive position, and in vain.
Rules, tips, recommendations
In order for cunnilingus to bring your partner maximum pleasure, it’s not just the positions that are important.
Follow the recommendations:
- Maximize the relaxation of the girl. If she will be tense, the oral contact will not bring any pleasure. By the way, this works not only in those situations where a man is active – before a blowjob, both men need to relax. You should not hurry to satisfy your partner faster – the contact should bring pleasure.
- Prepare for pleasure, the preferred positions for cunnilingus for each woman is different. Choose a body position so that you can relax and act freely. To make it more comfortable (especially for the first cunnilingus), position your lips and tongue at a 45 degree angle. Your gums should rest against your partner’s body and your head against her leg. This way the pleasure for the woman will be maximum.
- Master the basic technique of cunnilingus. Especially sensitive area is the anterior commissure, which is located at the junction of the labia under the clitoris head. It needs to be stimulated particularly carefully. Gradually add cunnilingus to the clitoris itself with your tongue and index finger.
Cunnilingus positions, description
If you have mastered the basic technique, it is worth trying an unusual version of cunnilingus. It is enough to change the usual position, add as a preliminary caresses erotic massage or blindfold your partner. There are many options and the choice depends only on your imagination.
“Soaring Eagle”
In the Kamasutra, cunnilingus is done in a variety of poses – of these, “Soaring Eagle” is the most traditional. In it, the woman lies on her back, spreading her legs apart, and the man is comfortably positioned between them. He has complete freedom of action in this situation: he can caress her hips, breasts, abdomen. He can actively work with his fingers, increasing the sensations of oral stimulation.
“Scarf”
This cunnilingus pose is one of the timeless classics. The only difference is that the woman makes contact closer, wrapping her legs around her partner’s shoulders. To make a variety, position yourself not on the bed, but on a chair, armchair or on the edge of a sofa.
In the sitting position the possibilities are greater – all the erogenous zones will be available for cunnilingus. At the same time the girl’s body can be caressed with your hands: the nipples and the inner part of the thigh are especially sensitive.
“Assault”
Many girls do not like that receiving oral caresses, they are in the “log” position. For such, there are special positions for cunnilingus, in which she dominates. Using the “horsewoman” position, it is the girl who is active.
The man takes a comfortable position lying on his back, and the partner:
- sits on top near the face, so that the partner can reach the clitoris with his lips;
- then leans back, placing her hands on her ankles or on the bed behind her.
During the contact, the girl has the opportunity to set the pace of the cunnilingus and suggest the direction of the movement.
“69 Position”
Rounding out the rating of classic positions is the famous “69th.” It is included in the cunnilingus pose, in which the partners mutually caress each other. Most often, the man lies on his back, and the woman is on top of him so that her vagina is near her partner’s mouth.
At the same time, her head goes down to the guy’s genitals. Mutual caressing helps to get pleasure at the same time, and the close contact gives special sensations and is very arousing. You can regulate the pace in this case by speeding up or slowing down the stimulation of the erogenous zones.
Conclusion
With the right approach, cunnilingus can bring many pleasurable sensations for both partners. This act is especially important for a woman because it makes her feel special, worthy of any form of caressing and desirable.
In addition, many are able to reach orgasm only with the help of cunnilingus. Therefore, it is useful for couples to look at pictures in the Kama Sutra to find new positions for cunnilingus and to diversify intimacy.